R.E.S.P.E.C.T

Just the other day my friend and I decided to go to a particular mall we hadn't been to in a while. While waiting for the streetcar, I ran into a gentleman from the Carribean. He was sitting in the bus shed which has a no smoking sign and he was just puffing away. I got in the shed and soon as I noticed that he was smoking I just stepped out of the shed, but before I stepped out of the shed he started hollering at me. Mina zwi, then he just started cursing at me , again I kept my cool.

Ahh anyway ngithi yebo ngikubonile. Frendado and I get off at the subway station and as we are walking and chit chatting, some guy just grabs me by the arm. Mina I just turned around and yelled , "Don't touch me!" then I think to myself watever happened to "excuse me" looks like more pple have bhinya mentality.

Last night I was at a housewarming party and I must say I enjoyed myself up until the very last minute when someone spoilt all my fun. There were lots of people and I was looking for a friend so I could give her my digits. There were mainly guys in the passage way, and I passed by one decided to be a bit showy and grab my booty. I spun around with the fastest 360 degrees I've ever done and hand landed on face with some slaps, with me saying "Ungihloniphe" and I walked away. All the dudes there were surprised and someone uttered " aaaah usis' lo uyadelela" and were trying to instigate a fight.

Later on the guy comes up to me and says, " Ahhh bengazi ukuthi ngizonda so!" Mina "how could you possibly do this to me, mina ngikuhlonipha njengobhud' wami? Since ubufuna ukubonakala ubuzezwa njani ngalami I turned around and dragged you outside by your testicles sayayiqedisela phandle? " Dude zwi.... and I asked him again, to which he answered, " his testicles are not what make him who he is. Mina " my booty doesn't make me who I am" and I walked away.

Now fellas if I choose not to talk to you, its my decision please respect it. It does not make me a whore and all the other slurs you hurl @ ladies. Do not just grab women, we are humans and not objects, and above all just because you've had a few drinks at a party it doesn't not give you the right to step out of your shoes as a human, uthole umuntu sethabe ngomsila njengenja, and they feel they start grabbing people's bootyz. Respect is reciprocal - you respect me and I respect you.